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An End of Year Reflection for 2025: What This Year Asked of You and What You’re Giving Yourself Permission to Carry
A gentle end of year reflection for 2025, exploring what this year asked of you and what you’re giving yourself permission to carry forward.
Val Blair
Dec 26, 20253 min read


Gentle Ways to Create Meaning During the Holidays, Even When Things Have Changed
Gentle ways to create meaning during the holidays when life has changed. A reflective, grounding guide for navigating the season with care.
Val Blair
Dec 19, 20253 min read


The Sherpa Inside You: A Letter About Signs, Intuition, and the Quiet Knowing We Often Ignore
Explore how intuition speaks through subtle signs, gut feelings, and everyday synchronicities. A gentle, grounding guide to recognizing and rebuilding trust in your inner knowing.
Val Blair
Dec 9, 20253 min read


The Loneliness No One Talks About During the Holidays
If you’re feeling lonely during the holidays, you’re not alone. This reflection offers gentle rituals and grounding support for tender winter seasons.
Val Blair
Nov 29, 20255 min read


Fear vs Love Decision Making: How to Know What’s Really Guiding Your Choices
A gentle guide to fear vs love decision making. Learn how to recognize whether your choices come from fear or love and reconnect with clarity, trust, and alignment.
Val Blair
Nov 14, 20253 min read


Give Yourself Permission This Holiday Season: The Gentler Way to Celebrate (or Not)
This holiday season, release the pressure to perform. Learn to give yourself permission to rest, grieve, simplify, and celebrate in ways that feel true to you, not forced.
Val Blair
Nov 7, 20255 min read


When Life Asks Us to Let Go
Discover the art of surrender and how letting go can open space for calm, trust, and renewal during life’s transitions.
Val Blair
Sep 10, 20252 min read


When the Universe Speaks in Signs
Explore how synchronicities and signs in grief can become breadcrumbs of healing, guiding us through loss, love, and the path forward.
Val Blair
Sep 4, 20252 min read


Coming Home to Yourself: Finding Love After Loss
After losing someone she loved, one woman shares the quiet, unexpected ways love and grace kept showing up—even in the darkest moments of grief.
Val Blair
Jul 25, 20254 min read


A Reflection: The Morning We Met an Angel
A quiet moment on the boardwalk revealed more than we knew then. A story about love, loss, and the subtle ways the universe prepares us to say goodbye.
Val Blair
Jul 9, 20253 min read


Finding Your Place When the World Feels Upside Down
Feeling overwhelmed by the world? This honest and soulful reflection helps you reconnect with your purpose, even when everything feels upside down. A gentle reminder that your role already lives within you.
Val Blair
Jun 7, 20252 min read


When Grief Feels Like Everest: Learning to Take It One Step at a Time
Grief isn’t a path—it’s a climb. This reflective piece explores how grief as a journey unfolds in small, honest steps, even when the mountain feels impossible.
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Val Blair
May 24, 20253 min read


The Mountain
My mind is in a sacred place today. Today marks six years without you. I just bought a new oracle deck – Postcards from Spirit. I asked Derek and Spirit to guide me with a message for today. “Over here there is no mystery for us to unravel, as we know intimately how connected we all are…That said, can you feel the importance of these currents of energy that bring events together in miraculous ways? …Surrender to the mystery and have faith that the unseen world is watching you
Val Blair
Jun 11, 20183 min read
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